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Written by DeadGirl
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Thursday, 18 November 2004 |
Sons seek jewelry inadvertently buried with mother
By Chau Lam
Staff Writer
November 18, 2004
A West Islip man wants to disinter his mother's coffin so he and his family can retrieve jewelry that was inadvertently buried with her when she died in June.
Last month, Kenneth Reifert, one of the sons of Rita E. Reifert, got permission from State Supreme Court Justice Mary Werner in Riverhead to dig up his mother's grave at St. Charles Cemetery in East Farmingdale.
A request to dig up a grave to retrieve valuables comes up about twice a year, according to a worker at the cemetery. According to state law, a judge must first grant permission.
In a petition filed with the court, Reifert said that because of a misunderstanding or a mistake, neither his family nor the funeral director removed the jewelry before his mother was buried.
"My late mother had disclosed her intention and direction to give said jewelry to certain members of our family," Reifert said in his petition. "My brothers and I comprise all of the decedent's next of kin and we all want to respect and adhere to our mother's wishes, hence, the instant application."
Reifert and his two brothers could not be reached Wednesday for comment. His attorney, Justin N. Lite, of West Islip, said the gems have sentimental value to his client's family. Lite could not specify what the items were.
According to her death certificate, Rita Reifert was born on Feb. 24, 1923, in Queens. She lived in Farmingdale. She died on June 1, 2004, at the age of 81. The cause of death listed was lung cancer due to a consequence of chronic pulmonary disease and osteoporosis.
Robert Lattman, an office manager at St. Charles Cemetery, said the cemetery gets requests for disinterment for a variety of reasons.
The most common reason, Lattman said, is when a survivor moves out of state and wants a loved one moved as well. Sometimes, a family member wants to move a loved one to a mausoleum, Lattman said. Twice a year, Lattman said, the cemetery gets a request to unearth a grave so valuables, such as jewelry, could be retrieved.
"If you're not in the business it's kind of weird," Lattman said.
The entire process usually takes two to three months to complete and costs, on average, about $2,500, Lattman said. And that's not including lawyer's fee and other costs. It's labor intensive and certain cemetery rules have to be followed. For instance, Lattman said, a coffin cannot be opened on the cemetery grounds so it has to be taken to a funeral home or similar facility.
In his 20-year career, Lite has had clients who want to disinter a loved one after burial for various reasons, but he said this is the first time he has represented a client who wants to unearth a casket to retrieve jewelry.
"It's a major undertaking," Lite said. "They did consider that [the costs] and they felt they want to follow their mother's wishes."
http://www.newsday.com/news/local/longisland/ny-lirita1118,0,4335907.story?coll=ny-topstories-headlines |
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Taphophilia?
taphophilia (taf′ō-fil′ē-ă)
ORIGIN:
From the Greek words taphos, meaning "tomb" or "sepulcher" and philia, meaning "attraction or affinity to something, in particular the love or obsession with something"
DEFINITION: 1. An excessive interest in graves and cemeteries. 2. A love or fondness for funerals, graves, and cemeteries. 3. In psychiatry, a morbid attraction to graves and cemeteries
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There was a young man at Nunhead
Who awoke in his coffin of lead
'It was cosy enough,'
He remarked in a huff,
'But I wasn't aware I was dead.'
”Anonymous Victorian limerick
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