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Written by DeadGirl
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Sunday, 13 June 2004 |
By Chery Sabol
Towering shade trees, acres of immaculately kept grass and sunny sloping roads rise out of the business district east of Kalispell where lunch-time strollers and joggers pass. It's not a park, but the historic Conrad Cemetery.
More than 100 years after Kalispell founder Charles Conrad was laid to rest there, the stately cemetery has evolved into something unexpected — a place where liveliness and death are smoothly juxtaposed.
Manager Jim Korn said cemetery officials don't actively discourage people from walking, running or exploring around the hallowed grounds.
"When people come in a respectful manner for the solitude and peacefulness of the area, we try to accommodate them," he said. "We don't see anything wrong with that."
It is a tribute to the four seasonal caretakers and five trustees of the cemetery that people are attracted to the well-tended 85 acres. That attraction doesn't fall too far from the origins of the cemetery.
The family of Charles Conrad realized the little town of Kalispell had grown to a size where a cemetery was needed. True to their style, they methodically went about planning one, picking out the spot on Conrad Drive and ensuring legislation that will keep it maintained in perpetuity.
A landscape architect from Minneapolis designed the circular roads, the way that trees are grouped and how monuments are laid out in a striking pattern.
"This cemetery has a unique design that isn't found often out West," Korn said. The cemetery copies the trend occurring in the metropolitan East at the turn of the century, when cemeteries and parks commingled in design.
It is that same park-like quality that attracts people in running shoes now.
On the west side lies "babyland," bright and busy with whirligigs and wind chimes in motion beneath the pines. Inlaid headstones tell of the brief lives of beloved infants, some of whom would now be elderly had they lived.
In contrast, on the east side is the somber brick mausoleum where the Conrad family is entombed. Separated from the rest of the property, the shed-sized mausoleum overlooks the Stillwater River. Austere and self-contained, the crypt contains the remains of five of Kalispell's wealthy and benevolent founders. High, barred windows offer a glimpse of the marble tombstones inside.
Between babyland and the mausoleum are looping roads, connecting the history-rich headstones in the center with an area of newer burials on the northeast hillside.
For something as permanent as a graveyard, Conrad Cemetery has a feel of fleeting moods and changes, dictated by the weather from which it stands unprotected.
"As the light hits the monuments at different times of the day and different seasons, you become aware of some you didn't see before," Korn said.
Some visitors to the cemetery lope through, heedless of the monuments. Others have to stop and investigate. Their curiosity is rewarded.
Three former Montana governors reportedly are buried in the cemetery. Robert Burns Smith was Democrat-Populist governor from 1897-1901. He died in 1908 in Kalispell. Samuel Vernon Stewart was a Democrat in office from 1913-1921. He also was a candidate for the Democratic nomination for vice president in 1920; he died in office during his second term in 1939. John Edward Erickson, another Democrat, served from 1925-1933. He was also a U.S. Senator in 1933-34. He died in 1946.
Korn, whose grandparents are buried at Conrad, said," I grew up understanding it was a special place."
He says old-school etiquette is still observed there. Visitors take care not to walk on the graves. They don't litter, and they treat the cemetery with respect, even if they're only there for the cardiovascular benefits.
That means the funeral-in-progress signs are the equivalent of "no vacancy" for recreationists in the cemetery.
"When there's a funeral going on, they should be elsewhere. For the most part, they're respectful of that, not having somebody jogging through the middle of cars [in a funeral procession]," Korn said.
There's usually a good time to come back. The cemetery is open from 8 a.m. to 8 p.m. in the summer, and people come and go "all day long," Korn said.
It is open to all who come with a spirit of respect, and that is in keeping with what the Conrads had apparently hoped for in "a fantastic vision of what they were trying to accomplish." Even before the advent of Nikes.
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Taphophilia?
taphophilia (taf′ō-fil′ē-ă)
ORIGIN:
From the Greek words taphos, meaning "tomb" or "sepulcher" and philia, meaning "attraction or affinity to something, in particular the love or obsession with something"
DEFINITION: 1. An excessive interest in graves and cemeteries. 2. A love or fondness for funerals, graves, and cemeteries. 3. In psychiatry, a morbid attraction to graves and cemeteries
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“The Impartial Friend: Death, the only immortal who treats us all alike, whose pity and whose peace and whose refuge are for all -- the soiled and the pure, the rich and the poor, the loved and the unloved.” Mark Twain
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