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Written by DeadGirl   
Monday, 19 March 2007
By Seth Harkness

SACO - Though most of his clients would never know it, Stacy Cote, the fourth-generation owner of Cote Funeral Home here, likes to spend weekends water skiing on competition slalom courses at speeds up to 34 mph. He's also a former competitive bodybuilder who wants to lay to rest the image of funeral directors as somber men who speak in hushed tones and wear nothing but dark suits.
That's partly why Cote, 38, sent a shirtless photo of himself along with an application to appear in a calendar of handsome funeral directors, "Men of Mortuaries 2008," being assembled by a California mortician.

Of the more than 250 funeral directors who applied to be included in the calendar, Cote was among 16 chosen to go to California in May for a photo shoot and a chance at making the final selection.

Regardless of whether he succeeds, Cote said he thinks his profession needs this project.

"I do think it's a chance to show that funeral directors are normal people outside the funeral home," he said.

The first edition of the calendar, "Men of Mortuaries 2007," featured 11 funeral directors standing bare-chested in a variety of funereal settings. The calendars are the work of Ken McKenzie, owner of McKenzie Mortuary in Long Beach, Calif.

McKenzie, 40, said his sister came up with the idea shortly after she was diagnosed with breast cancer. He printed 50,000 copies and donated $15,000 from their sale to Kamm Cares, a foundation that helps people living with breast cancer.

Charitable benefits aside, McKenzie said he, too, believes the calendar can help dispel the gloomy image of funeral directors. Some may wonder whether the calendar, with its images of men standing half-naked in a graveyard, undermines the sense of compassion and decorum required of morticians. McKenzie said he has received only a few complaints. Mainly, he said, the calendar helps to humanize people in his line of work.

"I want to let people know these are just guys," said McKenzie, who is shown washing a hearse in a sleeveless T-shirt in the 2007 calendar. "When they come in to make funeral arrangements, (people) should not be so scared."

Cote said he, too, saw no conflict between the portrayal of funeral directors in the calendar and his professional duties.
"They did a tasteful job with the calendar," he said. "I don't feel it's negative in any way."

There was one piece of feedback McKenzie said he heard repeatedly after the 2007 calendar appeared. "The only thing people wanted was more skin," he said. "If they wanted it, they're going to get it."

Next year's edition will feature models pursuing their hobbies or interests, McKenzie said. One funeral director, a rodeo rider, will be photographed with a horse. Another who worked his way through school as a waiter will be shown serving chocolate-covered strawberries to a table of women customers.

Cote, who is packing his water ski and swim trunks for his photo shoot, said he has been dieting in preparation for his tryout.
"I'll go in about 180 pounds," he said.

He said he also intends to go to a tanning salon before he leaves for California in mid-May to be on an equal footing with contestants who haven't endured a Maine winter. Cote said he believes he can hold his own, but he knows the competition will be intense.

"This is a unique group of funeral directors," he said. "Trust me, they're not like this all around the country."

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taphophilia (taf′ō-fil′ē-ă)

ORIGIN:
From the Greek words taphos, meaning "tomb" or "sepulcher" and philia, meaning "attraction or affinity to something, in particular the love or obsession with something"

DEFINITION: 1. An excessive interest in graves and cemeteries. 2. A love or fondness for funerals, graves, and cemeteries. 3. In psychiatry, a morbid attraction to graves and cemeteries

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